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Baby from a bottle?

Dear Pastor,

My boyfriend and I had sex only once. Now I have a baby and he says the child is not his. I say the child is his because I didn't sleep out but I went to a party two weeks ago. While I was there, I met a man. He was sexy and I liked him, but I walked away. I was drunk and so I fell asleep in the bar.

I think the man slept with me. Should I tell my boyfriend that I had sex with another man while I was drunk?

S.M.,

Jamaica

Dear S.M.,

I think you should keep your mouth shut. You are not sure that the man had sex with you while you were drunk. It would not be wise to put thoughts into the mind of your boyfriend.

No drinking

Keep away from liquor. Evidently you can't hold your 'waters' and you have a young baby; you should not be out drinking.

Concerning the question of paternity, tell your boyfriend that if he doubts that he is the father, then he should do a paternity test.

Pastor