Tell Me Pastor

I've got a man

Dear Pastor,

I am 19 years old and confused. I have a boyfriend in Jamaica who I love very much, but am now tempted to cheat because of reasons beyond my control.

This new guy is the sweetest. He lives in New York. He understands me very well, unlike other persons. He does almost every thing like my Jamaican man, but I really love my man from 'yard'. My Jamaican man means every thing to me. I am confused.

Please help me. I am awaiting your reply.

T.B.,

New York

Dear T.B.,

Tell the man who lives in New York that you have a man and he is living in Jamaica. So you cannot have an intimate relationship with him. Don't go out with him. Don't entertain him at your house. He is likely to tell you that you don't know what your man is doing in Jamaica. Tell him you understand that very well but that does not mean that you have to be involved with him. Stick with your man from 'yard'.

Pastor.