DEAR PASTOR,
I am a regular reader of THE STAR online. I am 18 years old. I am going crazy over my boyfriend. About two months ago he stopped calling me because I left swearing messages on his mobile.
He made several mistakes and I forgave him, but he can't forgive me for what I did. He won't even answer his mobile when I call him. I think about him night and day. I am tired of crying. My eyes are swollen as I am writing. I don't know what next to do. He likes to have sex.
Even when I was not feeling well I used to have sex with him just to make him stick to me. Now he is gone. What can I do to get this guy back? Sometimes I think I am too crazy in love.
Please help a girl who is going crazy.
L.D., England
Dear L.D.,
Men don't stick around with girls who are abusive just because these girls are willing to have sex with them. Some men beat women who tell them dirty words, others walk away. Your guy evidently has come to realize that you are not the type he should continue to have in his life. So, he has brought this relationship to an end. He may not return even if you cry blood. Please learn to control yourself even when you are angry.
Pastor
