DEAR PASTOR,
I have been with this man for four years. We have a one-year-old child together. When we first met I was working and had my own place. He moved in with me and I supported him while he was not working.
Since I had the baby we have moved and I have stayed home with him. For the past few months, every time we have an argument, he tells me that I can't live in his house and I can't eat his food that he buys. I can't use his computer and anything else that he owns. All of the furniture in the apartment belongs to me.
Please give me some advice on what to do. I want to stay with him because I love him and we have a child but I can't take it anymore. It makes me feel like I am not living anywhere and I have to depend on him for everything.
T.L., New York
Dear T.L.,
You have an ungrateful man. He has forgotten what you have done for him. He is selfish. He does not love you. Try and get a job and move out of his place. You deserve to be treated better. Do not fret. God is not sleeping. It is only a matter of time before this man falls flat on his face.
God has helped you before and He would help you again. Go on your own before things get worse. And if he does not support his child take him to court. Do not allow this thing that is called love to keep you under the thumb of a wicked and cruel man.
Pastor
